Highly attractive partners have 'financial stability'—but these 4 money red flags doom a relationship, survey finds

February 10, 2026 - 23:45

A new survey indicates that while financial stability is a highly attractive trait in a partner, certain money behaviors are severe relationship liabilities. The Harris Poll, commissioned by Empower, found that compatibility now outweighs chemistry for single Americans seeking a relationship.

The research identified four major financial red flags that are likely to doom a partnership. Topping the list is financial infidelity, such as hiding debt or secret spending, which 57% of respondents cited as a deal-breaker. This is followed by excessive credit card debt, poor credit scores, and a lack of savings, all signaling financial instability and mismanagement.

Interestingly, the survey highlights a shift toward pragmatism in dating. Over half of singles reported that discussing finances on the first date is now acceptable, underscoring the importance of economic compatibility from the outset. The findings suggest that open communication about money goals and habits is becoming a cornerstone of building a lasting relationship, as individuals prioritize long-term security alongside romantic connection.